Melissa Rachel Messenger

January 29, 1977 - December 13, 2022.

With great sorrow we share the passing of Melissa Rachel Messenger.

Her compassion, her sense of humor, along with her intelligence and wit, endeared her to others. She cherished her beloved family and friends and appreciated the heartfelt support and love they bestowed on her throughout her life. Although she managed much adversity in life, she gladly shared her insights with others through speaking, writing, and helping others overcome their problems.

Melissa was her happiest self being a mom. She blossomed when Stella was born and nourished her development. During her last days, she faced suffering with hope and a smile. Now she is at peace and her generosity, grace, and love continue to live on in all of us who knew her.

Her passing leaves a giant empty place in all of our lives. Our challenge is to keep Melissa's spirit and goodness alive in all those we touch.

Melissa was the loving mother to Stella

The loving daughter of Juanita (deceased) and Thomas Messenger (Barbara)

The loving sister to Michelle Renae Dapkus (John) and Mark Brown (deceased)(Pam)

Loving Aunt to Tommy, Cheryl, Melanie, Brad, Ashley, Samantha, and Mark

Great aunt to Candace, Amber, Amy, Noah, Jonah, and Drew.

Dear Niece of Lamar (deceased), Nicole, Suzy, Danny, David (deceased), Michele, Maddy, Alycia and dear cousin to Maureen, Scott, Joel, Nathan, Katrina, Gladys, Max, Jordan, Sammy, Becky, and Emmy.

In lieu of flowers, please consider memorials in honor of Melissa for Stella directed to John Dapkus or Tom Messenger.